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It can be hard to find just the right card to give your child on Valentine’s Day. Making your own card could be the best way to go. Try using a card-creating program on you computer to come up with the right card to express how you feel toward your child.

Be sure the card reflects your child and the things they hold dear to their heart. For instance, if your son is really into football make sure the card is geared toward football. Maybe your daughter likes dancing or jewelry.

By gearing the card towards their likes they are more apt to pay attention and enjoy the card you give them. It also shows them that you pay attention to their interests and cares. It gives them the sense that Mom does care about our world.

When it comes to what you put inside the card again gear towards your child. More specifically towards the age group they are in. Younger children still like the hugs and kisses and can handle the words I love you with out any problems.

Teenagers aren’t really into all that type of stuff and even though they want to know you love them and need them in your life they have a tendency to veer away from those types of things. Give them words of encouragement and let them know you are proud of them and what they have done with their life so far. Of course don’t forget to sign it with an “I love you!” but you don’t have to make it all mushy if they don’t like that kind of thing.

Always remember that it is important no matter how old they are to let them know you appreciate them and all the things they do. They aren’t perfect but then again who is? Just knowing that you care no matter what is the best Valentine’s Day gift any parent can give to their child.

Submitted by Nicole